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		<title>Want to be published, and succeed? Here are just a few things you may need to know how to do.</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Apr 2012 16:54:34 +0000</pubDate>
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<li>write a kick ass book</li>
<li>land a fantastic, eager, well-connected literary agent</li>
<li>do all you can to help sell your book through self-promotion</li>
<li>spend money, lots of money</li>
<li> get a web presence with blog, facebook, twitter, linkedin, good reads</li>
<li>hire a publicist</li>
<li>understand online marketing and advertising</li>
<li>jump on the e-book bandwagon</li>
<li>sell&#8230; but don&#8217;t sell out</li>
<li>write another book</li>
<li> and another</li>
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<p>Great insight on what publishing is like today from a pro&#8230; <a href="http://www.rachellegardner.com/2012/04/publishing_landscape/">check it out.</a>&#8230;</p>]]></description>
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<li>write a kick ass book</li>
<li>land a fantastic, eager, well-connected literary agent</li>
<li>do all you can to help sell your book through self-promotion</li>
<li>spend money, lots of money</li>
<li> get a web presence with blog, facebook, twitter, linkedin, good reads</li>
<li>hire a publicist</li>
<li>understand online marketing and advertising</li>
<li>jump on the e-book bandwagon</li>
<li>sell&#8230; but don&#8217;t sell out</li>
<li>write another book</li>
<li> and another</li>
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<p>Great insight on what publishing is like today from a pro&#8230; <a href="http://www.rachellegardner.com/2012/04/publishing_landscape/">check it out.</a></p>
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		<title>Wondering if there&#8217;s an audience for your book?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Sep 2011 12:39:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Linda</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>When I open the Modern Truck Drivers Facebook page and see over 1000 friend requests waiting, I feel prettty sure I have an audience for the photo essay book  of modern drivers.</p>
<p>Now, with the new novel nearing completion- a mystery series featuring a sassy female trucker.. well, I am all smiles on this day in Georgia.</p>
<p>Especially when I clicked on this video sent by a new Facebook buddy. You gotta love it.</p>
<p>&#160;</p>
<p><a href="http://youtube/UaEjI0EP5rk">Terry Wooley sings Big Boy&#8217;s Toy</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When I open the Modern Truck Drivers Facebook page and see over 1000 friend requests waiting, I feel prettty sure I have an audience for the photo essay book  of modern drivers.</p>
<p>Now, with the new novel nearing completion- a mystery series featuring a sassy female trucker.. well, I am all smiles on this day in Georgia.</p>
<p>Especially when I clicked on this video sent by a new Facebook buddy. You gotta love it.</p>
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<p><a href="http://youtube/UaEjI0EP5rk">Terry Wooley sings Big Boy&#8217;s Toy</a></p>
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		<title>Habits of Famous Writers</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Jan 2011 22:33:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Linda</dc:creator>
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<h2>Stephen King</h2>
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<p>“There are certain things I do if I sit down to write,” he said. “I have a glass of water or a cup of tea. There’s a certain time I sit down, from 8:00 to 8:30, somewhere within that half hour every morning,” he explained. “I have my vitamin pill and my music, sit in the same seat, and the papers are all arranged in the same places. The cumulative purpose of doing these things the same way every day seems to be a way of saying to the mind, you’re going to be dreaming soon.</p>
<p>“It’s not </p></div><p>&#8230;</p>]]></description>
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<h2>Stephen King</h2>
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<p>“There are certain things I do if I sit down to write,” he said. “I have a glass of water or a cup of tea. There’s a certain time I sit down, from 8:00 to 8:30, somewhere within that half hour every morning,” he explained. “I have my vitamin pill and my music, sit in the same seat, and the papers are all arranged in the same places. The cumulative purpose of doing these things the same way every day seems to be a way of saying to the mind, you’re going to be dreaming soon.</p>
<p>“It’s not any different than a bedtime routine,” he continued. “Do you go to bed a different way every night? Is there a certain side you sleep on? I mean I brush my teeth, I wash my hands. Why would anybody wash their hands before they go to bed? I don’t know. And the pillows are supposed to be pointed a certain way. The open side of the pillowcase is supposed to be pointed in toward the other side of the bed. I don’t know why.”</p>
<p>Lisa Rogak, <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0312377320?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=dailrout-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0312377320" target="_blank"><em>Haunted Heart: The Life and Times of Stephen King</em></a></p>
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<p>(<em>Thanks to St. Martin’s Press/Thomas Dunne Books.</em>)</p>
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		<title>Now I Know What Joe Knows</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jan 2010 13:10:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Linda</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Joe Konrath writes a blog called<a href="http://jakonrath.blogspot.com/"> A Newbie&#8217;s Guild to Publishing.</a></p>
<p>I&#8217;d like to share a recent post of his which is both enlightening and inspiring. Enjoy.</p>
<h2>Sunday, December 27, 2009</h2>
<h3><a href="http://jakonrath.blogspot.com/2009/12/what-i-know.html">What I Know</a></h3>
<p>I&#8217;ve been blogging for almost five years, and am closing in on 500 blog posts all about the publishing industry.</p>
<p>As a result, this blog gets a lot of hits from people who don&#8217;t know who I am. That&#8217;s the point. As I&#8217;ve said many times, anyone can find you on the net if they&#8217;re looking for you. The goal is to have people find you &#8230;</p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Joe Konrath writes a blog called<a href="http://jakonrath.blogspot.com/"> A Newbie&#8217;s Guild to Publishing.</a></p>
<p>I&#8217;d like to share a recent post of his which is both enlightening and inspiring. Enjoy.</p>
<h2>Sunday, December 27, 2009</h2>
<h3><a href="http://jakonrath.blogspot.com/2009/12/what-i-know.html">What I Know</a></h3>
<p>I&#8217;ve been blogging for almost five years, and am closing in on 500 blog posts all about the publishing industry.</p>
<p>As a result, this blog gets a lot of hits from people who don&#8217;t know who I am. That&#8217;s the point. As I&#8217;ve said many times, anyone can find you on the net if they&#8217;re looking for you. The goal is to have people find you when they&#8217;re looking for something else.</p>
<p>That said, I often get emailed questions that are already answered in my blog. On one hand, a newbie author discovering me is anxious to get answers, and often enthusiastically fires off questions to me without reading all 500 of my posts. On the other hand, anyone who wants to succeed in publishing needs to be in it for the long haul. This is a marathon, not a sprint. Reading all of my entries does a lot more than simply familiarizing you with my writing. It&#8217;s an encapsulation of how this business works, and how one writer views it.</p>
<p>So it&#8217;s worth it to the read old posts.</p>
<p>But it&#8217;s almost 2010. We&#8217;re in a technological tsunami. Instant gratification isn&#8217;t fast enough for us.</p>
<p>So here&#8217;s a blog post that distills the essence of what I&#8217;ve learned in this biz.</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold;">Luck Is Important</span></p>
<p>I say this all the time. In fact, I think it&#8217;s the #1 factor in determining success in this business. But I&#8217;ve never specifically identified what luck is.</p>
<p>In essence: Getting someone within the industry with enough power and money to recognize they can make money from your work. That&#8217;s luck. It involves having the right book, in the right place, at the right time. Too soon, too late, wrong person, not good enough&#8211;these all can minimize your luck. But hard work, paying attention, and being willing to roll with the punches and accept criticism can maximize your luck.</p>
<p>Still, at the end of the day, it always comes down to a roll of the dice. No one said it would be fair, easy, or fun. But if this is your dream, it is worthwhile to pursue it.</p>
<p>Why do I pursue it?</p>
<p>First, because I love to tell stories. I think it&#8217;s a fundamental part of the human experience.</p>
<p>Second, because making a living doing something I love is the whole point of life.</p>
<p>Third, because I&#8217;m ensuring my little place in history. The most important thing I can do as a human being is be a good husband and father. And yet, who remembers husbands and fathers? How many can you name that you don&#8217;t personally know?</p>
<p>But writers&#8211;everyone can name a dozen writers. That I&#8217;m able to reach people, and at the same time become immortal through my work; that speaks to to the essence of what I believe humanity is.</p>
<p>As a species, we love to create things. I&#8217;m doing my part and making my mark, in a way that makes me thrilled to be alive.</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br />
Understand The Industry</span></p>
<p>The publishing industry is broken. No doubt about it. Any business that allows returns,<br />
where a 50% sell-through is considered successful, where no one can figure out why things succeed or fail, is fundamentally flawed.</p>
<p>But the more you know about how things work, the better you can manipulate the system.</p>
<p>Good decision-making comes down to facts. The better informed you are, the likelier your decisions will be correct.</p>
<p>Listen. Ask questions. Follow examples. Experiment. Take chances. Stay alert.</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br />
The Harder You Try, The More Books You&#8217;ll Sell</span></p>
<p>You will not become a bestseller by doing all the things I tell you to do, no matter how logical or well-informed I appear.</p>
<p>You will not become a bestseller through your blog, your touring, your speaking efforts, your internet efforts, or you social networks.</p>
<p>The only way you will become a bestseller is to have your books available, at a discount, in as many places as possible. And that&#8217;s beyond your control.</p>
<p>That said, every little thing you do to sell your books can help your career.</p>
<p>Books sell one at a time. If you&#8217;re the one that sells them, one at a time, its one more that probably would not have sold without your efforts.</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold;">The Race Is With Yourself</span></p>
<p>You can&#8217;t ever compare yourself to any other writer. EVER. This isn&#8217;t like the business world, where certain positions have a salary range. You can make $100 a year, or $5,000,000 a year, with no discernible difference in your output or your quality.</p>
<p>If you want to compare yourself to someone, compare yourself to yourself. Monitor your successes. Learn from your failures (and if you aren&#8217;t failing, you aren&#8217;t trying hard enough.) Try different things, make mistakes, grow, adapt, evolve.</p>
<p>Your peers are a tool you can use to better yourself. But they are NEVER something to aspire to.</p>
<p>Your only aspirations should be within your control. Which brings us to:</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold;">Set Achievable Goals</span></p>
<p>Goals should be within your power. In other words, anything that involves a <span style="font-style: italic;">yes</span> or <span style="font-style: italic;">no</span> from another human being isn&#8217;t a goal, it&#8217;s a dream.</p>
<p>You can and should dream, and dream big. But &#8220;I want to be a bestseller&#8221; isn&#8217;t a goal. &#8220;I want to attend three writing conferences this year, polish my novel, and send queries to ten agents by November&#8221; is a goal.</p>
<p>Learn the difference. And don&#8217;t forget to reward yourself when you reach those goals.</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold;">Love It</span></p>
<p>The term &#8220;tortured artist&#8221; is an oxymoron. Art is not food, clothing, or shelter. Art is what we do to express and entertain ourselves. If you slave over your writing, I recommend finding something more enjoyable to do. Life is too short, and too many bad things happen, to waste time making yourself miserable.</p>
<p>No one ever gets farmer&#8217;s block. No one ever bitches about being too uninspired to wait tables.</p>
<p>If writing is so hard, perhaps you should find something easier.</p>
<p>This may seem to run contrary to:</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold;">Make Sacrifices</span></p>
<p>Nothing worthwhile in life is easy. Victory is sweetest when it&#8217;s hard-won.</p>
<p>You shouldn&#8217;t EVER believe you deserve anything, or that you&#8217;re entitled to success. But if you want to reach your writing goals, it often involves giving up other things in order to focus on writing.</p>
<p>You need to love writing. In fact, you need to love it so much you&#8217;re willing to give up other things that other people (perhaps even you) deem important.</p>
<p>How do you know if your love is strong enough and worth the sacrifice?</p>
<p>When you write THE END, if it isn&#8217;t the coolest feeling in the world, perhaps you should consider a different career.</p>
<p>But if writing THE END is so fulfilling that it was worth giving up TV, sleep, food, sex, and surfing the internet, then you&#8217;re in the right profession.</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold;">Get Used To Insecurity</span></p>
<p>As a writer, you&#8217;ll have the biggest ego in the world, and no ego at all, at the same time.</p>
<p>Money will sometimes be plentiful, and sometimes be scarce.</p>
<p>You&#8217;ll have major accomplishments, and major setbacks. Your mood will swing on a daily basis.</p>
<p>Some dreams will come true. Some will be murdered.</p>
<p>There are no guarantees.</p>
<p>This business is unstable, and being an artist, you&#8217;re probably a bit unstable to begin with. These things can feed on each other. Doubt, insecurity, and depression, are all part of the career.</p>
<p>There will be long periods of waiting. Lots of them.</p>
<p>There will be challenges (and by that, I mean you&#8217;ll get screwed.)</p>
<p>But you need to roll with the punches. Set-backs are opportunities to grow. Rejections are learning experiences. This is a business, and can&#8217;t be taken personally.</p>
<p>If you go into this understanding you&#8217;re in for an emotional roller coaster, you can handle the turns and dips much better.</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold;">Know When To Quit</span></p>
<p>The measure of a human being is what makes them finally give up. The stronger the person, the more they can take.</p>
<p>In my previous blog post, I said that you are the hero in the movie of your life. Act like it.</p>
<p>What do you want? Who do you want to be?</p>
<p>That dictates what you need to do.</p>
<p>Quitting, like admitting you&#8217;re wrong, is one of the noblest things you can do in life. It says that you understand, and accept. It allows you to grow.</p>
<p>But if you want to conquer, quitting isn&#8217;t an option. No one ever accomplished anything great by quitting.</p>
<p>Know your limitations. But also know your potential for greatness.</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold;">Be Cool</span></p>
<p>Gracious. Grateful. Easy going. Helpful. Fun. Giving. Thankful. Courteous. Honest.</p>
<p>In other words, be a nice person.</p>
<p>While &#8220;nice&#8221; doesn&#8217;t mean &#8220;successful&#8221;, it does mean you&#8217;ll sleep better at night.</p>
<p>I believe a successful life is one where people miss you when you die.</p>
<p>As a writer, you have the potential for a great many people to miss you.</p>
<p>But not if you&#8217;re a dick.</p>
<p>There. Now you don&#8217;t have to read 500 blog entries.</p>
<p>Happy New Year! See you in 2010!</p>
<p>I have a feeling it will be the best year ever&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Notes from the Universe</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Feb 2009 14:38:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Linda</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">  If I have not shared this before, I should have.</span></p>
<p> My friend Kari turned me onto TUT ( totally unique thoughts) a while ago:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.tut.com/">It&#8217;s free to sign up and they will send you &#8220;Daily reminders of life&#8217;s magic and your divinity.&#8221;<br /></a></p>
<p> Here&#8217;s mine for today.</p>
<p>   Here&#8217;s the thing, Linda. Admission into time and space requires a belief in limits: a belief that both time and space are real; that you can therefore have and have-not; that love can be lost or found; and that you are what your physical senses show you and no more.   These illusions immediately lead &#8230;</p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">  If I have not shared this before, I should have.</p>
<p> My friend Kari turned me onto TUT ( totally unique thoughts) a while ago:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.tut.com/">It&#8217;s free to sign up and they will send you &#8220;Daily reminders of life&#8217;s magic and your divinity.&#8221;<br /></a></p>
<p> Here&#8217;s mine for today.</p>
<p>   Here&#8217;s the thing, Linda. Admission into time and space requires a belief in limits: a belief that both time and space are real; that you can therefore have and have-not; that love can be lost or found; and that you are what your physical senses show you and no more.   These illusions immediately lead you to believe that you are incomplete. Yet, far from indicating you are flawed, they reveal your brilliance by filling you with desire, igniting your emotions, fueling your passions, and catapulting you out into the world where journeys are begun, connections are made, and dreams come true&#8230; only to be replaced by new dreams as your divine sense of incompleteness persists.   <br />This is by design, Linda. Feeling incomplete does not make you so. It&#8217;s how legends are born, giants are made, and history is written. It&#8217;s why you&#8217;re here. To ever so briefly escape your true identity as you live with an unquenchable thirst that will lead into adventures of grandeur, discovery, and a realization that love is all there is.  </p>
<p> Your trusty accomplice,<br />    The Universe</p>
<p>Wow. You gotta love that.<br /></span></p>
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		<title>I waited a good long time to say, &quot;My psychic told me&#8230;&quot;</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Jan 2009 14:32:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Linda</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3303/3219599797_e3229d23bd.jpg?v=1232722108"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 375px; height: 500px;" src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3303/3219599797_e3229d23bd.jpg?v=1232722108" alt="" border="0" /></a> He read these cards and told me wonderful, curious things and also some bad, sorrowful things. Just to be fair.<br />They say reading tarot cards can foster hope and temperance.<br />These particular cards are called PSY CARDS. They explore Jungian <span style="font-size:100%;"><em>psychology</em></span> in tandem with the meanings of the 40 <em>cards</em> in the <em>Psy</em>•<em>Card</em> System deck.<br /> it was pretty cool, except for me insulting the cat.<br /> My friend who came with me did not have half as good a time, or half as good a psychic, but he still bought me lunch.</p>
<p> The good?<br /> I will get a literary &#8230;</p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3303/3219599797_e3229d23bd.jpg?v=1232722108"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 375px; height: 500px;" src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3303/3219599797_e3229d23bd.jpg?v=1232722108" alt="" border="0" /></a> He read these cards and told me wonderful, curious things and also some bad, sorrowful things. Just to be fair.<br />They say reading tarot cards can foster hope and temperance.<br />These particular cards are called PSY CARDS. They explore Jungian <span style="font-size:100%;"><em>psychology</em></span> in tandem with the meanings of the 40 <em>cards</em> in the <em>Psy</em>•<em>Card</em> System deck.<br /> it was pretty cool, except for me insulting the cat.<br /> My friend who came with me did not have half as good a time, or half as good a psychic, but he still bought me lunch.</p>
<p> The good?<br /> I will get a literary agent this year, someone I will meet at an event in Feb.<br /> He will sell my book in or by June. It will make me money.<br /> I will have a whirlwind year from June 09 to June 2010.<br /> IRS problem will end in our favor.<br /> Money will never be a problem.<br /> Health is all good.<br /> I married the right man.<br /> Something to do with horses or dude ranches.. .( maybe I&#8217;ll adopt a cowboy?)<br /> Ocean good place for me to write.<br /> Will get a brand new house in new 1-2 years and have no problem buying it or<br /> selling existing one.  </p>
<p>The bad?<br />Brand new house not near ocean.<br />Someone older and sick who I am not close to ( not parents)  in my family will not make it through the year.<br />No time to travel this summer.<br />My daughter will be a pain in the ass for 5 years.<br />My son probably won&#8217;t be a gynecologist.<br />My father in law really was a stubborn man with issues that never would have been resolved.<br />Some friendships weren&#8217;t meant to be.</p>
<p>Best 55 bucks I&#8217;ve ever spent.</p>
<p>    My gift:<br />You can read your future too.<br /><a href="http://www.usefultrivia.com/astrology/free_tarot_reading.html">Go here for a Free Tarot card reading.</a></p>
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		<title>More than anything else, I believe in myself.</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Apr 2008 18:45:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">That&#8217;s pretty much a successful life in a nutshell, isn&#8217;t it?</span></p>
<p>And a good way to share some excellent news that I have been sitting on for over a week.</p>
<p>I won a scholarship to a prestigious summer writers workshop in NY &#8211; I&#8217;ve been assigned to the amazing AMY HEMPEL for the small group work, and will be able to study with many of my other fav writers, like Matthew Klam, Melissa Bank, Meg Wolitzer, here&#8217;s the whole list&#8211;<br /><br /> <br />
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<td valign="top" width="162"><a href="http://www.sunysb.edu/writers/writers/bios.shtml#alanalda">Alan Alda</a><br />             <a href="http://www.sunysb.edu/writers/writers/bios.shtml#mellisabank">Melissa Bank</a><br />           <a href="http://www.sunysb.edu/writers/writers/bios.shtml#billycollins">Billy Collins</a><br />           <a href="http://www.sunysb.edu/writers/writers/bios.shtml#eldoctorow">E.L. Doctorow </a><br />     <a href="http://www.sunysb.edu/writers/writers/bios.shtml#christopherdurang">Christopher Durang </a><br />           <a href="http://www.sunysb.edu/writers/writers/bios.shtml#julesfeiffer">Jules Feiffer</a><br />           <a href="http://www.sunysb.edu/writers/writers/bios.shtml#ursulahegi">Ursula Hegi</a><br />     <a href="http://www.sunysb.edu/writers/writers/bios.shtml#amyhempel">Amy Hempel </a><br />           <a href="http://www.sunysb.edu/writers/writers/bios.shtml#kayliejones">Kaylie Jones</a><br />           <a href="http://www.sunysb.edu/writers/writers/bios.shtml#mattklam">Matthew Klam</a></td></tr></tbody></table>&#8230;</p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">That&#8217;s pretty much a successful life in a nutshell, isn&#8217;t it?</p>
<p>And a good way to share some excellent news that I have been sitting on for over a week.</p>
<p>I won a scholarship to a prestigious summer writers workshop in NY &#8211; I&#8217;ve been assigned to the amazing AMY HEMPEL for the small group work, and will be able to study with many of my other fav writers, like Matthew Klam, Melissa Bank, Meg Wolitzer, here&#8217;s the whole list&#8211;<br /></span><br /> <br />
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<td valign="top" width="162"><a href="http://www.sunysb.edu/writers/writers/bios.shtml#alanalda">Alan Alda</a><br />             <a href="http://www.sunysb.edu/writers/writers/bios.shtml#mellisabank">Melissa Bank</a><br />           <a href="http://www.sunysb.edu/writers/writers/bios.shtml#billycollins">Billy Collins</a><br />           <a href="http://www.sunysb.edu/writers/writers/bios.shtml#eldoctorow">E.L. Doctorow </a><br />     <a href="http://www.sunysb.edu/writers/writers/bios.shtml#christopherdurang">Christopher Durang </a><br />           <a href="http://www.sunysb.edu/writers/writers/bios.shtml#julesfeiffer">Jules Feiffer</a><br />           <a href="http://www.sunysb.edu/writers/writers/bios.shtml#ursulahegi">Ursula Hegi</a><br />     <a href="http://www.sunysb.edu/writers/writers/bios.shtml#amyhempel">Amy Hempel </a><br />           <a href="http://www.sunysb.edu/writers/writers/bios.shtml#kayliejones">Kaylie Jones</a><br />           <a href="http://www.sunysb.edu/writers/writers/bios.shtml#mattklam">Matthew Klam</a><br />           <a href="http://www.sunysb.edu/writers/writers/bios.shtml#pattimarx">Patricia Marx</a></td>
<td valign="top" width="146"> <a href="http://www.sunysb.edu/writers/writers/bios.shtml#frankmccourt">Frank McCourt </a><br />             <a href="http://www.sunysb.edu/writers/writers/bios.shtml#carolmuskedukes">Carol   Muske-Dukes</a><br />           <a href="http://www.sunysb.edu/writers/writers/bios.shtml#marshanorman">Marsha Norman</a><br />           <a href="http://www.sunysb.edu/writers/writers/bios.shtml#joycecaroloates">Joyce Carol Oates</a><br />           <a href="http://www.sunysb.edu/writers/writers/bios.shtml#davidrakoff">David Rakoff</a><br />           <a href="http://www.sunysb.edu/writers/writers/bios.shtml#robertreeves">Robert Reeves</a><br />           <a href="http://www.sunysb.edu/writers/writers/bios.shtml#rogerrosenblatt">Roger Rosenblatt</a><br />           <a href="http://www.sunysb.edu/writers/writers/bios.shtml#garrytrudeau">Garry   Trudeau</a><br />           <a href="http://www.sunysb.edu/writers/writers/bios.shtml#derekwalcott">Derek Walcott</a><br />     <a href="http://www.sunysb.edu/writers/writers/bios.shtml#louannwalker">Lou Ann Walker</a><br />           <a href="http://www.sunysb.edu/writers/writers/bios.shtml#hilmawolitzer">Hilma Wolitzer</a><br />           <a href="http://www.sunysb.edu/writers/writers/bios.shtml#megwolitzer">Meg Wolitzer</a></td>
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<p><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"> I KNOW. I am a very lucky girl.</p>
<p> In case you are not familiar with Amy&#8217;s work:<br /> </span> <em>The Collected Stories</em> (2006) was one of the New York Times Ten Best Books of the Year and a finalist for the PEN-Faulkner Award. Hempel has received a Guggenheim Fellowship (2000), United States Artists Fellowship (2006), an Award for Literature from the American Academy of Arts and Letters, and an Ambassador Book Award (2007).<br /><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><br /></span></p>
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